by noibilism |  at 11:01 AM
Muslim conferences and conventions are just one of the many places Muslims often meet potential spouses either to make a final decision or to initiate the marriage communication process.
Other places include fundraising dinners, regional seminars, lectures, at the home of a relative or friend, and the local mosque.
Sadly though, Islamic guidelines pertaining to proper conduct between men and women are not always respected at these meetings.
It is not uncommon to see or hear about potential candidates meeting in private, brothers and sisters “scoping the territory” for a spouse that looks good at Muslim events like conferences or lectures, or starting up a flirtatious conversation with someone they are interested in. None of these things fall within the guidelines of Islam.
by noibilism |  at 6:53 AM
More Muslim marriages in Nigeria are breaking up in their first
year than ever before, according to Shahina Siddiqui.
The first five to seven years are the most challenging of any
marriage. They are a time a couple spends getting to know each other better and
adjusting to each other's habits and personalities.
Below are some of the main problems couples face in the early
years and some possible solutions.
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Narrated from Amir al-Mu’mineen Imam ‘Ali ibn Abi Talib (peace be upon
him)
Allahumma salli 'alaa Muhammadin wa
aali-Muhammad
O Allah, bless Muhammad and Aal-i-Muhammad.
Wasma' du'aa'i idhaa da'awtuk.
wasma' nidaa'i idhaa naadaytuk. Waqbil 'alayya idhaa naajaytuk
Hear my prayer when I pray to You.
Listen to my call when I call to You.
Turn towards me when I whisper to You.
Faqad harabtu ilayka wa waqaftu
bayna yadayk. Mustakeenan lak, mutadharri'an ilayk, raajiyan limaa ladayka
thawaabi, wa ta'lamu maa fi nafsi, wa takhburu haajati
by noibilism |  at 6:50 AM